Don't ask them how old or how young they are; they'll often not tell you, unless they really feel unselfconscious about their age.
I think from now on I'm going to start asking people how long they've been on the planet.
Kind of Mork and Mindy style you know?
DISCLAIMER: I am not a mental health provider. My interest in mental health is personal. *JANUARY: Begin Again. It is always dark at the beginning 😔🌚🔰🥂👶