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[quote=GuestC]Greetings everyone. I'm on here because I have no idea where else to put the problem that I'm dealing with right now. I have a crush on someone that I go to treatment with. And I know there's no way I can have them because I have sworn a life of abstinence. I know that God has a plan for me outside the purpose of romantic love which I believe is to do one of two things either get married and have children or get married and not have children and stay with your partner. I know that there's no way I'm getting married or having this person. Many years back I had a crush on a therapist and we worked through that by my therapist setting boundaries and me respecting them and setting my own. We have a good relationship today as therapist and client because there are boundaries. I know that I can accomplish the same thing with this new thing. Maybe there's a part of me that's still addicted to drama and glorifying being limerent forever towards this person. I also know where limerence has taken me. A very bad place. Thank you for letting me participate. Anonymous[/quote]